When an idiot is judged on his or her speech, actions, or appearance, the classic retort is "You don't know me!" Well, just how else is someone supposed to know you except by what you say, what you do, and the way you dress? And, if you have been judged as someone people do not want to know by your speech, actions, or appearance, why would anyone want to know you?
No one can really "know" another person, especially when the person does not really even know him or herself. Watch the news, watch your neighborhood. People who do bad things say it was "not like them," that they do not usually do that sort of thing. Relatives of people who do bad things say that it was "out of character" that the bad doers are usually fine, upstanding citizens.
You will be judged by your speech, appearance, behavior, and actions. If you do not like the judgments people are making about you, then change your speech, appearance, behavior, and actions. If you are not willing to change, then stop making excuses by blaming others by saying "You don't know me!"
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