Asking for an Opinion

Don't ask for someone's opinion on something if you are going to argue with the opinion you receive. If you ask for my opinion on something , don't argue with me about the opinion. Accept it and then either use it or reject it. However, if I offer my unsolicited opinion, then you may argue with me about it. If you ask about whether you should do something and the answer does not agree with what you want to do, don't try to convince me you are right. That just means you were not seeking my opinion, but merely seeking validation of your own opinion. If you can't deal with the answer you may receive, then don't ask the question.